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Facing the Shadow

Facing the Shadow

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Summer is the time of the Visionary, the one in us who tells the truth without blame or judgement. The hot sun can illuminate not only our Light, but our Shadow too. The Shadow is anything we have not integrated, whatever we try to avoid in ourselves.

Perhaps if your key value is work and proving your worth, then play and relaxation is exiled to Shadow.  As we see in the US, our unacknowledged fear of the other is roaring out of the Shadow, unfiltered as racism. With reflection it becomes a deep questioning of how we can move forward together as diverse society. Another example is when we favor control and the life of the mind, and try to keep the unpredictable and innate wildness of the body in check.

What is this season showing you about yourself? Where are you being asked to grow in your self-compassion? If you’d like help with integrating and healing, please contact me.

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Healing Quotes

“Everything in life that we really accept undergoes a change. So suffering must become love. That is the mystery.”

– Katherine Mansfield

“Your absence has gone through me like thread through a needle. Everything I do is stitched with its color.”

– W. S. Merwin

“The absolute tranquility is the present moment. Though it is at this moment, there is no limit to this moment, and therein is eternal delight.”

– Hui-Neng

“The big question is whether you are going to be able to say a hearty YES to your adventure.”

– Joseph Campbell

“Grief is not a task to finish,
And move on,
But an element of yourself –
An alteration of your being.
A new way of seeing,
A new definition of self.”

– Barb Mather

“The next message you need is always right where you are.”

– Ram Dass

“Our only security is our ability to change.”

– John Lilly

“Now is the moment, Here is the place of Liberation.”

– Alex Grey

“It’s time again. Tear up the violets and plant something more difficult to grow.”

– James Schuyler

“Human beings are not born once and for all on the day their mothers give birth to them…life obliges them over and over again to give birth to themselves.”

– Gabriel Garcia Marquez

“There is deep wisdom within our very flesh, if we can only come to our senses and feel it.”

– Elizabeth A. Behnke

“In order to be a good warrior, one has to feel this sad and tender heart.”

– Chogyam Trungpa

“We are the facilitators of our own creative evolution.”

– Bill Hicks

“We must be willing to let go of the life we have planned, so as to have the life that is waiting for us.”

– E. M. Forster

“Don’t run away from grief, o soul
Look for the remedy inside the pain.
Because the rose came from the thorn
And the ruby came from a stone.”

– Rumi

“Joy moves always to new locations,
the ease of its flow never freezing.
A long winter’s tale is over. Now
with each spring day, a new story.”

– Rumi