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The Shadow Knows

The Shadow Knows

Times of illumination and breakthrough are often signaled by the Shadow making itself known. The Shadow is anything in us that is not yet integrated, anything that’s calling to be recognized and healed and incorporated at this time.

It is the thing we must face to be able to move forward.

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This detail from a Rick Bartow painting, Bear Medicine, 2014, reminds me of the perhaps frightening, but ever life-giving, energy of the Shadow.

Often the Shadow shows up as critical inner voices telling us that we are less than. These voices are not current, but are echoes of old stories of who we once were or who we fear ourselves to be.

The Shadow can also show up as our mastery, our excellence that everyone but us can see. There can be a fear of being seen and heard, not because we are flawed, but because we have so much to offer. Sometimes it is our light, our power, our ability to have a big, positive impact that we are hiding from ourselves.

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To be with the Shadow is to get current and come into Present Time. The Shadow offers up information, and we get to choose. Is this story current, useful, supportive? Is it something to release? Is it something to rewrite so you can be more fully yourself?

If you are having a hard time with your Shadow, please contact me. I’d love to support you to get current and incorporate the wisdom that it brings.

 

 

 

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Healing Quotes

“Joy moves always to new locations,
the ease of its flow never freezing.
A long winter’s tale is over. Now
with each spring day, a new story.”

– Rumi

“Human beings are not born once and for all on the day their mothers give birth to them…life obliges them over and over again to give birth to themselves.”

– Gabriel Garcia Marquez

“Everything in life that we really accept undergoes a change. So suffering must become love. That is the mystery.”

– Katherine Mansfield

“Your absence has gone through me like thread through a needle. Everything I do is stitched with its color.”

– W. S. Merwin

“Grief is not a task to finish,
And move on,
But an element of yourself –
An alteration of your being.
A new way of seeing,
A new definition of self.”

– Barb Mather

“The absolute tranquility is the present moment. Though it is at this moment, there is no limit to this moment, and therein is eternal delight.”

– Hui-Neng

“The big question is whether you are going to be able to say a hearty YES to your adventure.”

– Joseph Campbell

“There is deep wisdom within our very flesh, if we can only come to our senses and feel it.”

– Elizabeth A. Behnke

“The next message you need is always right where you are.”

– Ram Dass

“Now is the moment, Here is the place of Liberation.”

– Alex Grey

“We must be willing to let go of the life we have planned, so as to have the life that is waiting for us.”

– E. M. Forster

“Our only security is our ability to change.”

– John Lilly

“In order to be a good warrior, one has to feel this sad and tender heart.”

– Chogyam Trungpa

“It’s time again. Tear up the violets and plant something more difficult to grow.”

– James Schuyler

“Don’t run away from grief, o soul
Look for the remedy inside the pain.
Because the rose came from the thorn
And the ruby came from a stone.”

– Rumi

“We are the facilitators of our own creative evolution.”

– Bill Hicks